KOTW Week 13: Wax Play
We’re into Week 13 with Wax Play—the sensual art of dripping hot (or cooling) candle wax onto skin for sensation, marking, or ritual. It can be teasingly light, intensely hot, decorative, or deeply submissive.
Quick History: Wax play appears in ancient rituals and Victorian sensation play, then became a BDSM favorite in mid-20th-century leather and Femdom scenes. Today it’s all about safe temperatures, skin care, and enthusiastic consent.
Let’s discuss openly and respectfully:
What do you love (or not) about wax play? Favorite wax types, colors, patterns, or the burn-to-cool rush?
Origin stories: How did this kink start for you—a first drip, a scene you saw, partner suggestion?
Share a standout experience—sexy drips, funny messes, intense moments, or beautiful designs
Etiquette, decorum & best practices:
- Use low-temp wax or soy/paraffin blends; test temperature first
- Negotiate areas, intensity, and hard limits upfront
- Safety: no face/eyes/genitals without experience; keep ice or cool cloth ready
- Aftercare: gentle removal (peeling or oil), lotion, praise, and skin checks
New or curious about wax play?
Ask anything—this is a safe, judgment-free space!
- Sultanna