I would like to start by saying that I do not appreciate someone touching my feet, so this is merely something that I like to do for others.

For me, it started with nail painting.

Close to where my grandmother lives, there is this woman who has a small nail salon at the front of her house.

Long time ago, before nail art was a thing this woman started her small business. An entrepreneur! She would travel abroad and buy polish in colors you didn't see here. She would buy hair accessories, small hand bags, pearl jewelry and she would sell those too.

I've met her all my life, and I remember that she would always stood out to me because she was naturally blonde with blue eyes. Something uncommon where I live.

She was married, but an independent woman. Owner of her own small business. Traveled and saw the world. And if you made an appointment she would tell you ALL about it.

I think that she was one of the first people I came to admire in my life. Not only that, but she helped other women feel beautiful, and she is friendly and talkative. And even though she is an older woman she is quite attractive.

My grandmother is good with numbers, and she helped this woman with her accounting as well as other of her "friends", file taxes, that kind of thing and I would keep her company during her business visits.

In some of the bigger beauty salons, I would spend time with the ladies that did the nails. I think now because they had more free time than the ladies who did hair cuts and such.

As I got older and got my own partners, it because a gesture of helping them. I have steady hands, and I would get better results than then did in awkward positions. The comment that I kept getting was that somehow it was surprising that I was not bothered by feet.

Later in life, I learned about Reflexology. Not exactly the kind of massage that announces foreplay, but you can get creative. Learning the skill and going to workshops was fun and I got praises.

I like heels and all, but I never developed a love for shoes, and I guess I always looked forward to the skin on skin contact, the shoes unfortunately had to go as much as I admired them, but they would become a symbol of anticipation I could say.

To me... It's something I enjoy doing. I know it has some actual benefits for the person receiving. I like to think that just like those beauty specialists do something to help the women who use their services to feel appreciated and spoiled, I want to think that I am doing something to help others feel good.

More within the lifestyle, I think it's a great topic to start exploring.

You don't need a partner, but if you do you can involve them. Schedule an appointment together. Use as a gift language. Get lotions, socks, pantyhose, stockings, so many options! Nail polish in cool colors.

Buying shoes but help to put them on and take them off.

During intimate times, choose positions where you can get easy access to feet and sure it can be an unexpected surprise.

It can introduce aspects like service, care, worship, and also, how to negotiate limits which is very important. Explore with comfort levels. And it can be something that can start with an innocent question covering up a rabbit hole.

For now... that would be all, but certainly looking forward to sharing more.